Should i leave a man who is addicted to porn?

At what point is it ok to REMAIN ter a relationship where one is addicted to porn sites. It is getting a bit much. I am not an insecure person by any means, yet I can’t help to think that this can’t be healthy for our long term romance. Please advise mij. I have never had to overeenkomst with someone who loves porn. Is it just mij or should I be worried? Ladies be fair would you leave? or Let it rock?

If he is addicted, I’m assuming it takes up all his free time and he’s not providing you much attention. If that’s the case,then you may need to use raunchy love and leave.

Agree. If it’s a true addiction, talk very first with true unemotional thoughts. If he is not willing to zekering or seek help te stopping and you’re not cool with it, leave. Don’t play the vulnerable female. That is so 16th century. Love is everywhere. If he doesn’t have it for you, someone else will. People who are addicted to porn toevluchthaven’t learned to connect with themselves. (ok poor choice of words).

Sounds like PORN Junkie to mij. Well, both of you need to sit down and talk. I mean autĂ©ntico good talk. If he’s unwilling to switch for better, then LEAVE HIM.

After all, he’s not the only MAN alive. Love yourself. Make the right choice. You’ll find someone who’s gonna love you more than PORN itself. Take care.

did he observe porn a lotsbestemming when you met him? if he did, then you fresh what you were getting into so truly why are you now attempting to switch him. if he didn’t witness a lotsbestemming of porn, sit him down and give him a choice inbetween you and porn. i don’t believe ter porn addiction but i do believe that some people want a fantasy world that they are too foolish to realize is just that , fantasy.

Damsel, leave his assss! Nah, just kidding.

The one thing I suggest to all my friends is go after your OWN intutition, your greater judgement. YOU have all the answers!

However, since you are asking, join him when watching the porn. I wasgoed dating this stud and caught him watching porn on my pc, so I open the topic to. I like to see porn, my fantasy is xyz, catch my drift?

Doing this activity can go good or bad, meaning he may be intimidated by your sexiness or like it and you end up having excellent hookup!

For mij it went very well and I felt more close to him because wij were sharing something and I didn’t feel if he had a porn jack-off session on his own that I wasgoed less than or couldn’t fullfill his needs.

@ Karen Bailey. LOL.. Excellent advice. i am not so angry or upset about his love for porn. I do at times see some of his selected few with him, te which he tells mij that he is simply getting ‘position’ ideas from it. I just laugh. I just desired to know everyone’s opinion and there are some very helpful comments I will consider. I am not leaving him for something so petty. at least he does not cheat and he permanently wants to have lovemaking, I am the one who turns him down. He is a fine dude who treat mij like a queen. I know porn can become an addiction that ruins relationships but I don’t feel like it is tearing us bijzonder. wij have fine lovemaking, maybe he is learning a thing or two. lol. @ FabJustin superb masculine perspective. Thanks a bunch. Blessings all.

I’d never say that porn is a problem spil long spil he’s not actually sleeping with others. If he’s addicted and neglecting you, that is the actual problem not to what he is addicted. If he wanks off a few times to porn it’s downright comĂșn especially if he’s not sated with the current amount of presente lovemaking. Have you attempted to both witness some erotic movies together or so?

If it is out of your ethical boundaries, make that clear to him. Otherwise he’d never know what he has done wrong.

I thought all boys loved porn. ijs! Earnestly ,if the addiction is interfering with your relationship you might want to talk to your playmate. Does your fucking partner agree he has a sexual addiction? Acknowledgement is the very first step.

You need to be more open. There’s nothing wrong with what your man is doing, except that you are making it wrong. Share his hobby and love it with him. Whatever it is that’s made him choose this pastime will be righted if you ease off about it.

Ter a word, &quot,Yes.&quot, I would consider that a overeenkomst breaker. I very recommend that you do a Google-Scholar search about the effects on the brain on porn addicted individuals. Suffice it to say that much of it has to do with dopamine. Additionally, pornography creates a desensitization ter the addicted individual, along with many other brain issues.

Not to mention, it is very disrespectful for a man to view porn ter your presence or out of your presence for that matter. Please keep ter mind that there is a difference inbetween Google and Google scholar. I recommend that you start doing some research now. You might also want to look up some statistics regarding violence against women. All of this research will persuade you that your man has a serious problem. You need to leave him now.

Do not listen to dudes or women who defend pornography. Such studs have some serious issues. I ensure it. That being said, porn addiction is also on the rise for females. Sad but true.

Wow, this should be interesting to see what people have to say about this.

i would honestly have a talk with your playmate and discuss your differences.

Make a list of professional’s and con’s about watching porn and attempt to understand where your playmate is coming from. Don’t take offence to it straight away, some people choose different things. Maybe your fucking partner is hinting at &quot,attempting fresh things&quot. You will never know unless you ask. To have a decent relationship you need trust and within that trust you should have no problem ter talking to your fucking partner about any issues such spil &quot,watching porn&quot.

If I were ter that situation I would discuss my concerns with my playmate and if I were still feeling unsatisfied or upset I would want to see a couples counselor. I don’t think I would just leave, if the relationship is worth working through the problem.

I truly do feel for you. Bot te that same situation with my ex-husband (hubby at the time). He didn’t go online, but used DVD’s and godheid knows what else. I do know that it made mij feel very not special. I imagined that he wasgoed thinking of other women when wij were having hookup. When he looked out the window, I wondered if he wasgoed thinking of someone he had seen ter a movie. When he looked at mij, I felt like he wasgoed comparing mij to them. It tends to make one feel very insecure. My spouse had a deep, addictive relationship with porn and fantasy that left mij pretty much out of the picture, even however wij continued to have a hook-up life. But I often felt like I hardly needed to be there. Just waterput a paper bag overheen my head, because anything above my neck wasgoed not needed. No proximity, no connection. I ultimately couldn’t take it anymore after finding porn hidden ter furnace ducts, etc. He wasgoed parking te strange places and taking strange things to work that I won’t mention. Hookup wasgoed of utmost importance to him, moreso than most likely to most dudes. You certainly need to seek out a counselor with practice te this area. Very first alone, then straks discuss your concerns with your playmate, and ask if he feels it is a problem. If he says it’s not a problem, then you’ve got a problem! If he feels your agony, then tell him that you would like him to seek help either with or without you. It’s an uphill battle, this kleuter of addiction, with a high recividism rate. Wishing you the best te this situation!

I think you mean &quot,recidivism&quot,, and I’m sad that a man’s use of Porn to exercise/enhance his daily need for getting off, could be described with a word meaning repetitive behaviour leading to criminal activity. Tho’ I sympathize and understand how you would lose that &quot,I’m special&quot, feeling, telling a man who uses porn on a daily onderstel to masturbate with is &quot,Addicted’ is like telling someone who drinks water is an ‘maniac’. Regular doses of &quot,self-pleasuring&quot, are very natural. Overheen doing it, is possible and can become excessive if more than merienda vanaf day. Studs, Str8 or Gay, need a multitude of fantasies to play out. If you are doing hookup the same way with him every time, his mind is gonna wander. Most dudes are afraid to address the situation with their ladies for fear the unpredictable nature of a woman. Some of you are very open-minded and some of you not-so-much! I am writing this reply with my head bowed and lots of respect to Women. Spil a very straight looking gay boy, I have learned a loterijlot about women, and dudes, and I understand why women would hop to the conclusion that watching porn regularly could be considered an addiction. But it is the wrong assumption, spil much spil accusing some one of being an junkie because they need water on a regular voet. I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter how pretty you are, guys need a bit of diversity, and if you permit them porn, they are less likely to be mischievous. Vertoning mij Pamela Anderson, and I’ll demonstrate you Two potentially Trio fellows that are sick of hier. Ladies don’t hit your gorgeous selves up when your guys spanking the monkey to pictures of other ladies. Its just a very natural need for diversity. So maybe wiggle it up a bit for him, find out what other things he likes, and don’t take any of it personally. If you make them feel bad about it, you will drive it underground and it will become more obsessive, and then it truly is a problem for you and for him. Fellows are very ‘visual’, and watching porn is better than your stud having affairs to play out the need for multiplicity.

ExoticHippieQueen, I don’t mean to be dis-respectful, you are gorgeous and you will find a man that makes you feel it, if you toevluchthaven’t already. Understanding our needs will help you understand what may seem like crazy behaviour.

Much respect to you, and much respect to women, there’s a loterijlot wij have te common.

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