It is unfortunate that so many people join dating sites but so few waterput a fair effort into writing a truly good profile that makes them stand out from thousands of other users. I am not sure why people go through the trouble of signing up and packing all those questionnaires and then postbode a profile that looks like a copy of any other objetivo, boring, profile utter of cliches and types.
What makes any female dating profile excellent is the fact that it stands out from the surplus of the profiles on any given online dating webpagina. It doesn’t blend ter. It’s not generic, indiferente and overly politically keurig. It doesn’t describe you with overused adjectives such spil “intelligent, compassionate, educated, and independent” and it is free of boring statements that say nothing such spil “I am spil comfy staying ter spil staying out.”
Rather than proceed describing what a good profile is, I want to bring to your attention verdadero examples of three contemporáneo dating profiles from on popular webpagina that I rated for content. I commented ter parentheses via the profiles below what I thought of them and why:
Example Dating Profile #1: Grade C+
I talent this profile a passing grade because while it’s not excellent, nothing about it makes it terrible.
“I have bot ter the ––- area for a few years now and always looking to meet fresh people. (This very first sentence says nothing eye-catching about the woman and is very bland, and boring). I am a very hard worker and love my job. I work a lotsbestemming, but I know how to recuento well. I love
meeting fresh people and going to fresh places. (still, nothing thought provoking or attractive) I am very spontaneous and I love the outdoors, watching movies, dancing, and traveling. (Another cliche statement that is being used by thousands of other women) A fine date can be staying at huis with a movie and popcorn, or a night on the town. (This statement has no purpose whatsoever). I made myself a promise a few years ago to take a vacation somewhere fresh, out of state, every year. I have not bot disappointed yet. I would indeed love to see Europe. (Eventually something somewhat interesting that she says about herself).
Well, that is a little about mij if you are interested say
hello and wij will talk. Talk to you soon!!”
Profile #Two: Grade: B
This profile gets a higher grade because it reflects on the writer’s character and hier personality. It’s a bit negative and has a few crimson flags but other than that – it’s not bad!
“100% Italian, joy loving, affectionate youthfull lady who knows what it takes to make a relationship work. Tired of meeting BOYS who tell mij what I want to hear, make and pauze promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. (This woman is voicing hier opinion and shows hier personality early on. (Good budge!))
You: Fair, mature, dandi, emotionally, mentally, financially secure (“financially secure” is a bad stir ter a dating profile because it’s an instantaneous crimson flag to a boy that he might be dealing with a materialistic woman.) Knows how to treat a lady, ready for a long term
relationship (this would sound a bit too antsy or even desperate to most guys. Very first, meet a dude, then determine what you want out of him). Please……mean what you say and say what you mean. (that’s a good statement).
I live on the East Coast and travel to Westelijk every week for work. Being te California Four days/week gets lonely. (This would make the reader believe that she is not looking for anyone special, but just someone to kill time with and subdue hier loneliness). I am looking to meet someone ter the this area and see what happens! Relocating for the right person is certainly an option. Very first date….not sure. I am willing to entertain any reasonable suggest. ?? (good, funny, statement that shows personality and sense of humor, she should have used more of this kleintje of words across hier profile). ”
Profile #Three : Grade: A
This is one fine dating profile. It consists a number of thought provoking statements right from the beginning that voorstelling a woman’s superb personality and sense of humor. It’s eloquently written, it’s concise, straight and to the point! It is free of fluff and very compelling for a boy who can appreciate this type of no-nonsense attitude ter a person:
“I don’t like most guys, but… I am not interested ter most guys and besides perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all more special. (Good, thought provoking opener that shows a woman’s engaging personality. Myself – restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. (Guys truly, indeed like to hear that). Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on waterput good flavor into many of my evenings. What’s your story? What are you greatest pet-peeves and what makes you powerless te your knees from joy and happiness.”
This last profile below gets the highest good for both the content and the creativity. It almost sounds like a poem. What I particularly like about this profile is that it shows that a woman hasn’t lost faith te true love and romance but at the same time she is also realistic. The ending of it might sound a bit on a more desperate side, but all te all – maybe it’s not such a terrible thing to sound a bit desperate for love and connection if that’s how you indeed feel.
“I don’t know if the world is going to run forever, but I know I’m not going to be around forever!
I don’t know if I will eventually meet you to warm my heart and join for a better, more satisfied journey, but I know I can’t zekering looking for you, and can’t zekering calling you te my heart…
I also don’t know what life holds for mij tomorrow, but I do know that wij can only get older and I feel safer to get old with you. Someone to recall the days with, and to grow with.
All profiles repeat the same. Everyone is howling out to say how good they are, how cool they are, how joy they are. But how auténtico are you, and how content are you with your auténtico you? I’m tired of the lies, of the fakes…I want someone positivo! I want my “best friend”, I think this says it all!
Maybe it’s about the right time, right place, right person… can online dating be any good? Wij’ll see :)”
Use the above profiles spil an inspiration for your own dating profile to make it more creative and more interesting. Reminisce, quality single guys that you are looking to meet are more picky than others. Many of them are looking for a special connection with a special woman. If you know how to and are able to communicate through your dating profile that you are not just another media lady, it will significantly increase your chances of meeting better and more interesting guys online.