Eric Charles here, author of the dating tips and relationship advice katern, Ask a Stud, for A Fresh Mode.
When I embarked writing Ask a Stud, I had no idea that it would take off like it has. I am grateful to have such loyal readers who contribute excellent questions to mij.
But I have a confession to make: I don’t response every question that comes into my inbox. I would love to be able to – I just don’t have the time.
I feel bad when I don’t react. But on a positive note, I can offerande the next best thing: A consolidated postbode all about answers to the most frequently asked dating tips and relationship problem advice questions that I see. Wij also just released a book based on the most frequently asked questions wij receive: “He’s Not That Complicated: How to Crack a Man’s Romantic Code to Get the Relationship You Want.”
You would be amazed (or maybe you wouldn’t be) at how often I am asked if a dude likes them or not. Or what it means when he didn’t text back right away. Or why a man wasgoed interested one minute, then lost rente seemingly for no reason.
So to help out everyone who I am not able to reaction directly or instantly, I’ve written up a list of the most frequently asked questions and quick and elementary answers (spil well spil linksaf to utter posts I’ve written on the subject.)
What would you say are universal truths about relationships?
Relationships are messy at times – even for those of us that like things clean (no toneelstuk). Having a good relationship doesn’t mean no messes. Having a good relationship means continuing to love (the verb form of love) actively via the good times, bad times and natural times.
There wasgoed a woman I wasgoed talking to at a folder a few weeks ago. Indeed attractive, tho’ older than mij (Ten years older actually). Superb conversationalist.
At one point, wij got onto the subject of relationships, guys and women. Inbetween swigs of hier martini, she told mij she wasgoed going to share the most significant lesson she everzwijn learned about dudes, women and dating: Studs are idiots. Women are crazy. If you can find a man who is less of an idiot than most, or a lady who is less crazy than most, then you’ve done well.
What’s the State of My Relationship?
One things I’ve noticed happens a lotsbestemming. A woman will observe something… a behavior, a statement an act and attempt to figure out what it means about hier relationship. Here’s a entire boatload of common relationship stuff.
Does He Want a Relationship? or What Does This Mean About My Relationship? or Is He Serious?
And then for those cases where you’re not looking for a relationship, but want your needs met… Friends With Benefits Rules
Figuring Out Why Things Happened
The most common types of questions all boil down to fledgling speurder work on why a fellow didn’t do what the woman desired him to. Here’s some of what I consider some of my best articles to reaction the most common questions:
Understanding Male-to-Female Attraction:
He Loves Mij, He Loves Mij Not
Another major type of question is attempting to figure out the dude’s feelings or where she stands with the dude she’s watching. Here’s a entire bunch te that strijdperk:
Does He Like Mij? or How can I tell if a dude likes mij?
There is a broad range of “does he like me” questions that I get. They are typically an endless recounting of little details and interactions that sway the poor dame back and forward inbetween thinking he’s into hier and thinking he’s not.
Let mij make this entire thing effortless for you: If you can’t tell whether or not he likes you, your best bet is to strongly assume that he does and give him clear and demonstrable opportunities for him to make a budge for you (assuming you’re into him and not just wondering for vanity’s sake.)
He’s timid? Then be patient and give him puny, effortless, bite-sized opportunities to step by step open up to you.
Signs He Might Not Be Into You
Not everyone is a good match with each other. And the people wij’re most attracted to aren’t always the best matches for us – sometimes they are the worst matches for us!
Want to know if you’re on the right track? Check out: Signs He Does Not Like You,
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again – walking down the path of distrust or suspicion is a slimy slope. The more you walk down it, the worse things get. Check out thesis two articles that explore the topic of trust ter relationships/dating: Does My Bf Indeed Mean What He Says?
A loterijlot of the time, I’ll get questions from women who feel te their heart that they want to make a stir or budge ter a certain direction, but truly don’t know if it’s the right budge or not. Here are some common questions and my answers.
Here’s my very best on how to seduce and man and turn him on: How To Seduce A Man and How To Turn A Man On…
And my very best on what makes him emotionally unie with you and fall te love: What Do Boys Want Ter A Woman and How Do You Find Love
Making a Long Distance Relationship Work
Everything you need to know to have a successful long distance relationship here: Long Distance Relationship Advice (LDR Advice)
Brief reaction is that you can, but most likely shouldn’t since you’ll be left wondering if, when and how he would have done it had you not bot such an “eager beaver”. Detailed reaction here: Can a Female Say I Love You Very first?
If a stud doesn’t call, it means he’s just not that into mij, right? Maybe, or see what Sabrina says when a dude doesn’t call.
How Do I Get Him To Pursue Mij Again?
Sometimes a relationship starts out with the man pursuing you like you’re the center of his universe. And somehow spil time goes on, you get that feeling ter the pit of your belly that he’s losing rente ter you – he no longer seems to be putting ter the effort he merienda wasgoed.
To revive that spark, read this now and get the boy to pursue you. On a similar topic, you might find it interesting to know how to make your bf be more romantic.
How Can I Make This Fellow Marry Mij?
Violating Up With Your Beau
Not all matches are made te heaven and sometimes violating up is the right budge. It’s never joy or effortless, but if you’ve got to do it you might spil well do it right. Check out how to pauze up with my bf.
Thesis are the questions where everything would be ideal, except for this one thing…
My Beau Lost His Job (or is Having Career Problems) and Now Wij’re Having Relationship Problems:
For the majority of guys, upsets at our jobs can dramatically affect our relationships. Most people don’t talk about guys typically relate to their jobs differently than women ter terms of how it can influence the relationship (I think people fear being accused of sounding “sexist”).
Ex-girlfriends can be another form of baggage altogether.
Still, not all relationships with exes are a bad thing – there are slew of guys who are friends with their ex-girlfriend and it’s not an punt. The question is, what does it mean for you when your beau still talks to his ex-girlfriend?
When a Man Loses Rente & Things That Drive Boys Away
Am I Being Needy?
How Can I Not Be Needy?
Is He Losing Rente ter Mij?
Things were going excellent and now he’s throwing you curve nut that are driving you crazy with confusion and worry. Get your head sorted out with thesis: Boy wants to take it slow, Is my beau getting bored with mij?
Spil a closing note, again, thank you so much for being such loyal and supportive readers.
You have all said wonderful and appreciative things to mij since I began Ask a Fellow and I am deeply and sincerely grateful and appreciative to have your support. Thank you!